Planning the next venue part way through the date is huge. That’s a great tip that a lot of guys overlook when they take a girl out. Nailed it on the “first kiss move†too. You should be kissing her within the first two hours, if not long after the 30 minute bar. Gmac on August 30, 2011 3:42 pm bar = mark foo on August 31, 2011 3:47 am I went out witha girl tonight, but sadly the chemistry was not there from my end, and I suspect from hers as well, although she was pretty agreeable. I asked her the VK date question, but she replied that her experiences have been good! I was a bit taken aback by that. Maybe she just hasn’t dated much here and just made it up? Anyway, I gave her the VK answer when she asked about mine. Kind of sad, because she was a fairly sweet girl, but she just did not give me a boner. I think I’ll friend zone her and possibly use for expanded social circle opportunities.